{"id":4261,"date":"2009-08-13T01:21:07","date_gmt":"2009-08-13T07:21:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.conradaskland.com\/blog\/?p=4261"},"modified":"2009-08-13T01:34:29","modified_gmt":"2009-08-13T07:34:29","slug":"songs-by-david-gates-of-bread-and-asian-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/conradaskland.com\/blog\/songs-by-david-gates-of-bread-and-asian-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Songs by David Gates of Bread and Asian Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>httpv:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=1pfTfMoR8sg<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Everything I Own&#8221; performed by David Gates from Bread. The audio is a bit poor but I love the live performance footage. There are many people that sing good copies of David Gates&#8217; voice on YouTube, but the performances don&#8217;t give me the shivers and goosebumps like David Gates&#8217; vocals do.<\/p>\n<p>httpv:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=24IfD-0VUu4<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The Diary&#8221; by David Gates of Bread. This song has always moved me so much. I&#8217;ve probably heard it a thousand times in my life. Each time I listen, I pretend I don&#8217;t know how the story is going to end. And then I get a little tear at the very end. I like the experience, it&#8217;s sweet.<\/p>\n<p><!--more-->Many of my co-workers and myself in China have had to adjust and reshape our paradigms of love and relationships. For some it has been sublimely beautiful and others brutally painful.<\/p>\n<p>We tread the treacherous waters between the gold diggers looking for blue cards (working permits) and a new life in the West; to the Mainlanders who have a very different social etiquette and courting process.<\/p>\n<p>You can find many web pages that detail the social differences and various horror stories from the mix of cultures in relationships. But there&#8217;s one thing in common with most those pages that they point out: Western men find Asian women enticing and endearing, and Asian women find Western men polite, open and caring. A generality that shifts a lot, but I think it&#8217;s an appropriate generality.<\/p>\n<p>For many Western men working in Asia, it&#8217;s a time where they have good jobs, a lot of money and time on their hands. A ripe time to enter a relationship. A confusing time for the Gweilo who wants to enter into the Asian culture.<\/p>\n<p>My experience? I&#8217;ve been burned about as bad as a Gweilo can get burned. But I wouldn&#8217;t change a thing, and it&#8217;s all part the road I&#8217;m on. It&#8217;s all good. So on that note I leave you with another David Gates song &#8211; &#8220;Seventeen&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>httpv:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=wPv3ivUY7o0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Seventeen&#8221; by David Gates of Bread.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;SEVENTEEN&#8221; LYRICS<\/p>\n<p>Seventeen &#8211; it&#8217;s been a while since I&#8217;ve seen seventeen<br \/>\nAnd the years since have been might lean<br \/>\nBut there&#8217;s no use complaining.<\/p>\n<p>And 42 has a way of creeping up on you<br \/>\nAnd my chances left are getting few<br \/>\nBut there&#8217;s still time remaining<\/p>\n<p>And I&#8217;ve been waiting for someone<br \/>\nWho loves the way I do<br \/>\nAnd girl I&#8217;ve got my fingers crossed<br \/>\nIn hopes it might be you<\/p>\n<p>Twenty One &#8211; that&#8217;s how many jobs I&#8217;ve done<br \/>\nAnd I remember quitting every one<br \/>\nWithout hesitating<\/p>\n<p>And Thirty Three &#8211; that&#8217;s how many women left on me<br \/>\nI don&#8217;t have too good a history<br \/>\nBut I don&#8217;t mind waiting<\/p>\n<p>Because it really doesn&#8217;t matter<br \/>\nHow many years you&#8217;ve seen<br \/>\nBecause love is always Seventeen<\/p>\n<p>I wonder if you&#8217;ll be the one<br \/>\nTo end this lonesome heart<br \/>\nBecause girl I&#8217;ve got a lot to give<br \/>\nAnd I&#8217;d sure like to start<\/p>\n<p>It really doesn&#8217;t matter<br \/>\nHow many years you&#8217;ve seen<br \/>\n&#8216;Cause love is always seventeen<\/p>\n<p>httpv:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=2HxYwQh6V5Y<\/p>\n<p>Piano performance of &#8220;The Diary&#8221; by John Falloon. The thing I enjoyed about this video clip is I could tell he was reliving an experience through playing the music. It&#8217;s taking the music that defines a memory and making it a part of yourself. Maybe as musicians we take this process for granted. There&#8217;s nothing like it. Watch his face as he plays&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>httpv:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=1pfTfMoR8sg &#8220;Everything I Own&#8221; performed by David Gates from Bread. The audio is a bit poor but I love the live performance footage. There are many people that sing good copies of David Gates&#8217; voice on YouTube, but the performances don&#8217;t give me the shivers and goosebumps like David Gates&#8217; vocals do. httpv:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=24IfD-0VUu4 &#8220;The Diary&#8221; [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[30,47],"tags":[3057,3050,3034,3042,3056,3039,3035,3054,3046,3043,3044,3049,3053,582],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3C0LX-16J","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/conradaskland.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4261"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/conradaskland.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/conradaskland.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/conradaskland.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/conradaskland.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4261"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/conradaskland.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4261\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4264,"href":"https:\/\/conradaskland.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4261\/revisions\/4264"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/conradaskland.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4261"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/conradaskland.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4261"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/conradaskland.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4261"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}